What Idea is Holding YOU Back From True Love?
It is easy to blame circumstances, your past experiences, your parent or evil step-mother or father for your failure in love. You can be frustrated at the lack of single people you meet or the ones you meet that have no interest in a committed relationship. Or, maybe you are mad at yourself for mistakes you have made that led you to the perpetual single life. Blaming your single status on the external is a very powerless place to be. In order to regain your strength, you must find the key inside of you that prevents love from entering your life.
You have the power to attract your true love, anytime…anywhere. It may seem more comforting to believe that you have to wait for fate to deliver your ideal partner, but leaving it up to someone else’s agenda (even God’s) shrinks your spirit. There will come a point when you finally say enough of waiting and have the courage to go inside and face your darkest thoughts that keep love away. Bringing deep fears to the surface, you can heal them and regain your strength. You tap into your unlimited energy, become a larger force and in control of your life’s experience.
The answer is inside of you and all around you with every man you date, every relationship in your life. There is a pattern so obvious but at the same time hidden like those magic eye pictures. You have to look at it just right to see it right in front of you. Once you realize what it is that is blocking you from love, you will throw up your hands and wonder why you didn’t see it all before. You will understand that you created your life situation all along.
We all have one storyline that resides in our mind that prevents us from experiencing real love. Every day you wake up with the same theme, you go to work, socialize and do your daily routine while there is a soft hum in the background of your mind. This hum is your constant thinking, judging mind that interprets sensory input from the outside world. The source of this chatter is deep within your subconscious mind and the creator of your life.
To understand what is blocking you from love, you must start to pay attention to that hum throughout your day. Be present to your constant thoughts. You will notice the theme in everything that you do and say. Once you identify the source, notice if that storyline supports your desire for true love. Most likely it does not, so you have to learn to change it or you will be stuck in the same worn-out romances or settle for someone just so you don’t have to be alone. You deserve more than that!
The easiest way to change your automatic thinking is through self-hypnosis. By relaxing your mind with positive messages for only fifteen minutes a day, you can train your mind to think differently. The relaxation is crucial for the mind to accept new ideas. Just one suggestion in hypnosis is the power of one-thousand affirmations. Just like learning a new language, instead of speaking French, your mind learns to tell you how amazing you are, how worthy you are and how real love is possible.
When you wake up each day into your new narrative, you regain control of your life. The tale of the amazing woman who stands up for herself, claims her right for romance and really believes that love is just around the corner. This takes practice because many get discouraged when the external world barks back at them in their old story. The key is to keep pushing through as the thinking eventually becomes smooth and automatic. You then start to live in your ideal life.