Singles – do you feel like a million bucks?
Imagine that you are walking down the street and you found a million dollars sitting there. What would you do? You know the value of that money, so you would probably scoop it up right away. You would be so ecstatic and feel so lucky that found a million dollars! You would take good care of the money and make sure it stays in your possession. You wouldn’t just walk by and say, “You know, that’s a nice million dollars but I am really busy right now so maybe I’ll come back and get it later.”
Now think of yourself as the million dollars. How many guys/gals have you dated that didn’t see your value? You may have heard them said, “You know, I am really focused on my career right now, I just got out of relationship, I am just not ready for a commitment.” Just because they don’t see you as a million dollars does not mean that you are not valuable – you are still worth a million!
Keep this in mind when you are dating. You want someone who feels like they got the jackpot when they find you. He or she will feel SO lucky to have you and want to keep you around and not take you for granted. When you start seeing yourself as the prize, you won’t worry about those who can’t make up their mind. You will simply say, “Next.”
True love is effortless. You deserve someone who you don’t have to convince to be with you. Keep holding the idea that you are the jackpot and soon you will find someone who sees you as precious, rare and valuable. That special person will make sure that wonderful you doesn’t get away.