You Can Get Over the Heartache of Your Breakup
The pain you are feeling is very real. Scientists have discovered that going through a breakup can affect you not only emotionally, but also on a physiological level. They call the physical pain, "Broken Heart Syndrome."
Being apart from someone you care about whether it was a short affair or a long-term relationship is difficult to bear. Not only are you feeling a loss, but you may be second-guessing what you did wrong or why it ended.
Do you feel confused and angry and unsure where to place these feelings? You wonder how your life is going to change without him (or her) not in it and the thought of that brings deep despair or even panic. You wonder if you can survive this and we are here to tell you that you can.
You are strong and there is a way out to feel better.
Love is so short, forgetting is so long.
Get to the root of the pattern and make DEEP, LASTING CHANGES without therapy or "clearing" anything.
Why did this happen?
It is not your fault. Nothing you said or did in the relationship caused the breakup.
You were unconsciously drawn to this situation because the person fit into a psychological pattern, or what we call your "Emotional Relating Style™" that drives your romantic choices without your conscious knowledge. In Jungian Psychology, this powerful part of your psyche drives attraction to people that repeat old patterns from early in life and creates that "in love" feeling and chemistry. The love feels so real but it is a fleeting, temporary high that cannot be sustained so the relationship burns out.
You can use this opportunity to bring your pattern into the light so you are able to change your patterns to attract a NEW RELATIONSHIP that brings your REAL, LASTING LOVE.
A breakup cannot break you.
You don't need to be fixed.
Your true self can never be broken.
Here's what you need to do to feel better...
- Stop blaming yourself or getting weighed down in regret. You did nothing wrong!
- Look at your breakup as a Wake-Up Call to your love life.
- Understand how to manage your mind, let go of obsessive thinking and self-blame
- Become aware of the hidden patterns that create your Emotional Relating Style™, so you can understand yourself and why you chose this relationship and why it ended.
- Redefine who you really are, what you really want and decide not to settle for less.
You can create a new LOVE VISION for yourself that is outside of your old patterns and find lasting love!
Module 1: The Breakup Wake-up
Start feeling better by exploring your Emotional Relating Style™ or love pattern, so you can learn how to use the experience in a powerful way to transform your love life forever.
- Understanding the unconscious pattern that led you to this person in the first place
- Identify your Emotional Relating Style (E.R.S.) and why relationship didn’t work
- Once you know what happened, you can be confident to get back in control of your love choices
Module 2: Feeling Powerful Again
In this module you will learn how to dealing with the emotional aftermath of your breakup with courage and power.
- Learn 6 core emotions that you experience in breakups so you can better understand what you are feeling and why
- Practical tools to work with your emotions so that you can reclaim your power in relationships
- Create a new “peak state” to use as an anchor to get you through tough days
- Learn how to escape the quicksand of obsessive thinking, regret and self-blame
Module 3: Opening Your Heart to Real Love
In this module you will let go of the past for good so that you can trust yourself and others in your future relationships. You will also understand how to...
- trust and be open to love again
- recognize the ego’s pattern of looking backward and being able to refocus your mind on new beginnings
- train your mind to think in possibilities
- cultivate faith that you will get through this experience feeling more confident and better about love.
BONUS #1: Heartache Recovery Visualization Set
Love Detox Visualization Set includes:
- Overcoming Obsessive Thinking
- Reclaiming Your Love Energy
- Let Go of the Weight of Heartache
- Recovering Your Lost Self
BONUS #2: Private Love Coaching Session
A private thirty (30) minute coaching session with our Lead Staff Coach, Teresa Muhlenkort to give you personalized attention one-on-one so you can work through the process and get ready for love again.
BONUS #3: LIVE Group Coaching Call with Debi & Rob
Join Debi & Dr. Rob LIVE on a group coaching call to answer your questions about the process and get laser coaching so that you can get the transformation you want.
A great opportunity to interact with Debi and Dr. Rob directly to deepen your understanding and get clarity on your self-actualization journey.
LOVE DETOX 2.0
A 3-part online course to help you get over your breakup, recover from your heartache and breakthrough to a new love reality!
Here's a summary of what you get in Love Detox 2.0
- Three (3) Live Lectures with Q&A
- Heartache Recovery Visualization Set - Value $250
- One (1) Thirty Minute PRIVATE Coaching Call with our Lead Coach - Value $250
- Live Group Coaching Call with Debi & Dr. Rob - Value $250
We are so confident that you will get so much out of our program that we guarantee it. Just review the program for thirty days and if you are not satisfied, just ask us for a full refund!
The risk is all on us. We want you to enter this program worry-free and confident in your decision to take this step.
Changed my world!I did the let love in course in July and it has truly changed my world. I found it so enlightening and it made so much simple sense ( not sure I could say that the next level of work with inner Adam/Eve and dream assessments is quite as easy!!) Anyhow it truly changed my world in lots of everyday ways and really led me to understanding myself and identifying who I am. A few months on and I see new friendships developing with like minded people and to top it all off I met a wonderful man who is like no one I have ever met before. Our relationship is so different and connected to anything else either of us have ever experienced (Interestingly he studied philosophy in Uni and really enjoys reading and learning and challenging himself)So I wanted to say thank you on so many levels. Personally I feel so calm, confident ( and that's a big one!!) content and grounded just in myself and then externally I have developed some wonderful friendships and met a great man who just enhances all of that....its been quiet a year! --N.B.,Vancouver, Canada
I am now in a relationship that’s beyond my wildest dreams."I felt I had lost all hope of meeting a truly good man that I would also fall in love with. After a lot of not-so-great relationships, I felt I kept making one bad choice after another. Not having much else to lose, I kept with our program and did my homework. Not only did I meet the most amazing man a month after writing that email, we now live together in a beautiful apartment, about to take our relationship to the next level. I’m so grateful for Debi for not letting me settle, for guiding me to make better choices and helping me find the love and respect for me and through that, the most loving, respectful relationship that’s beyond my wildest dreams." Annabella, New York City
Best Life Journey!I will never thank you enough for my best life journey with you and Roberto, and I am looking forward to a more enlightened life and journey. My husband has a lovely spirit and a beautiful sense of humor, he is a naturally positive man. I still believe that he is my shadow and I am still meditating and reflecting till today. I attended a marriage talk once and felt that I am way ahead, thanks to the work and teaching I did with creative love coaching academy!And as Rumi said, Love is the bridge between you and everything, I see love everywhere and in everything not in a soul-mate as I used to believe before. Its more divine and spiritual. Thanks alot for everything right deep from my heart 🙂 A.A.-Dubai, UAE
Truly Life Changing Journey!Robert. Debbie. This is unlike anything I have ever experienced in my life. This is real. This is true love. This is what I prayed for, asked for and hoped was truly possible. Tears well up in my eyes as my heart is overflowing with gratitude.He has worked me through a few fears and a few shadows and is as solid as a rock. He believes I am the woman he has been looking for all his life and it feels like best friends, true love and the added bonus of romance.My children adore him and want me to marry him. He asked me to chose a ring last night. When things are official, I will of course update you.I just HAD to take an opportunity to thank you from the depths of my heart for taking us through a truly life changing journey. It is exactly what I needed, exactly when I needed it. God Bless you! -S.B., (Minnesota, USA)
Never treated so well“I’ve never been treated so well. This is the one!” — C.O. | Columbus, OH
I'm Engaged!“I’m engaged! Thank you so much for your guidance in drawing my true love to me.” — C.A. | Saudi Arabia
Debi and Robert Maldonado, Ph.D. ("Dr. Rob")
This program was developed by Dr. Robert Maldonado who has a Ph.D. in counseling psychology, expert in Jungian Psychology and Debi Maldonado. Robert is recognized internationally as a human behavior and relationship expert. He has had a life-long interest in Jungian Psychology, dreams, world mythology and comparative religion. His diverse academic training includes neuropsychology, neurodevelopment, social neuroscience, and multicultural psychology, and his clinical experience includes working with individuals, groups, couples and families.
Robert’s research interests include the exploration of consciousness, personal transformation, the creative process, and eastern philosophies such as Vedanta, Buddhism, and Taoism.
Debi (Berndt) Maldonado was single until she was in her early forties which inspired her to work with other single women helping them find the love of their life. She knows first hand how hard dating can be and falling for the wrong people. Her personal experience and stories help you feel relaxed like you are talking with an old friend and she will inspire you to go for what you really want.
Debi is also the best-selling author of the book, LET LOVE IN: Open Your Heart & Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner (Wiley 2010) and has been featured by NBC, ABC, FOX, Cosmopolitan, YourTango.com, Huffington Post and more.