Is He Un-Datable?
You meet someone new who seems like a potential match but there is a nagging feeling inside that he is going to disappoint you. You could be dating someone who is clearly un-datable. Here are a ten examples of the guys that you should let go of before they catch on to your heart:
*Confused Ken – Men who are confused over their feelings with an ex-girlfriend or ex-wife (or still involved with them). He will convince you to wait until he figures it out, but he is not available.
*Bitter Bob –Guys who have been hurt by a woman (or many women – including their mom) and carry a grudge. You can hear his negativity and complaints on the first date. Nothing you can ever do will make him happy.
*Non-committal Nate – Men who tell you on a first date that they aren’t looking for anything serious – believe them.
*Inconsistent Ed – Men who don’t call when they say they will or constantly change plans. If he cannot settle on a time to get together with you, he is not ready to settle down in a relationship.
*Last Minute Larry – The guy who is so busy to make a plan ahead of time but always seems to contact you at the last minute to go out. He will always make you feel like you are the last on his list.
*Married Mark – Need I say more?
*Jolly Jeff – Watch out for the guy who always has a drink in his hand and often over-indulges, it could be a sign of a deeper addiction. If he needs to intoxicate himself, he is numbing himself from life and love. You don’t want to be spending your honeymoon in rehab.
*Desperate Dave – A guy who professes his love on the first date and starts planning your life together before dessert. These types are in love with being in love and tend to fall out of love just as easily.
*Slick Willy – The man who has all the lines, smooth, sexy and confident. He says all the right things but they are all lies. The nice guys are the ones who are a little awkward and not as proficient in talking to women.
*Momma’s Boy Mike – The guy who still lives with his mom. She cleans his clothes and makes his lunch. If you are looking for someone to nurture you, he probably isn’t your type. He may love you, but your cooking will never be as good as dear old Mom.
Throughout your dating life, you may have met at least one of these types out there. If you find that you are constantly attracting any of these type of men, there is a part of you that is subconsciously drawing you to them. Discovering your pattern and breaking it through self-hypnosis and changing your actions can shift your love destiny in the right direction.