How to Get Over A Breakup – Dating Advice
Most people who come to me for relationship issues have recently gone through a painful breakup. They want to know how to cope with a split with their boyfriend, spouse or even just their latest fling. They experience depression and wonder if there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Currently, the divorce statistics are around 67%, so there is an epidemic of relationship problems. Even though breakups can be hard, here is some advice on how to deal with starting over that will bring you more peace.
The pain you feel when you experience heartache is an old feeling. The painful emotions are not about the other person. What? You say? How could that be? The core foundation of that pain was something you originally felt a long time ago (probably as a child). Humans project their pain onto outer situations and make the experience the cause of the pain. The breakup was only a mirror to a deeper hurt you had felt before in life.
If you feel that you are constantly getting your heart broken by men or women, there could be a pattern in your subconscious that is creating the attraction and the demise of the relationship. Of course, the other party has their subconscious baggage as well and they could have rejected you because of their unhealed issues. Deep feelings of unworthiness or being unlovable tends to attract people and situations that mirror those beliefs. The only way to change your dating destiny is to change your subconscious programming to feeling more lovable and worthy.
The best tool I found is hypnosis because it bypasses your critical thinking and allows supportive information to sink in to the deeper parts of your mind. The trance state gives you a unique experience of self-love and is a simple way to change your inner mind and transform your outer reality.
The trace state in itself feels so good and instantly melts away tension and hurt to bring you to a place of peace. You have the opportunity to have a direct experience of your true divine nature which is perfect and beautiful. You can train your mind to see yourself through new eyes and ultimately others will see the same reality. You will not only feel more attractive but be attracted to healthier relationships.
The breakup may be the best thing that ever happened to you as you expand your vision of yourself into a greater possibility. You will get over him or her and feel thankful for them being an important catalyst in improving your life.
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