Got Hope in Dating?
Many clients often ask me if they are being ridiculous and unreasonable about dreaming of finding their life partner. They want to know if they should give up. Feeling like their time has passed, that there are no good men/women left and other unsupportive beliefs, they are wondering if they are hanging on to false hope.
My teacher told me once that there is no such thing as false hope. You either have hope or you don't. I do not have the answer as to when their true love will show up in their life, but I do know that if they focus on the negative, they get more of it. Thoughts about lack and disbelief repel healthy relationships and often lead to settling for someone they are not too excited about or, worse, someone who is not good to them.
My belief is that if you have a strong desire for something, as long as it is in alignment with the good of all, it is the divine wishing to express itself through you. Your thoughts and actions are the only thing in the way of attracting that relationship, so hold on with unwavering faith – regardless of current circumstances – that all of your desires will be brought to you.