Difference between hope and faith in love attraction
So you discovered your core beliefs, have done your forgiveness work and religiously listened to your meditations in hope that something will work to attract your true love. You bravely go to singles events and date online hoping that “he” will be there. Each month that goes by your hope starts to wane and you feel like all this positive thinking is just not working.
Maybe the problem is “hope” itself. When you hope for something, you leave the door open for it NOT to happen. You think it may happen or could happen but you really aren’t convinced until that man actually comes into your life and gets on his knees to propose. You really don’t believe that he is out there, but you HOPE that you are wrong. You are not convinced either way.
When you are simply just hoping for change, it is very difficult to attract what you want. It takes much longer because you leave the doorway to failure open, allowing the draft of disappointment, impatience and discontent to flow into your mind. Your hope is clouded with other options, other unfavorable possibilities and the horrible thought that you could be alone forever.
In order to shift the energy and create powerfully using the law of attraction you must abandon hope and replace it with faith. Faith is saying that you are absolutely sure that your ideal partner is out there. You will find your true love, you will feel more confident, and you will reach your goals and dreams. With faith you have a certain conviction that is much more powerful than the flimsy hope-y talk. You truly believe without a doubt that love will find you.
Think of it this way. You can either spend your time doubting and disbelieving or you can spend your time preparing with joyful anticipation for your dream guy or woman. What energy would you like to play in today? If your thoughts create your reality, what scenario do you think would be most productive for you in getting the life you want?
Most singles I talk to spend their days trying to protect themselves from disappointment, afraid to feel too positive because deep inside they feel they can’t have that love relationship. This type of thinking is actually stating that they are powerless to their life and love attraction is out of their hands. They believe external forces dictate their life more than what goes in inside of their mind. They are silently agreeing with the status quo and continuing the pattern of loneliness and heartache.
True faith is being certain that you are a co-creator with the divine. Your desire for a love relationship isn’t selfish because the divine in you is love waiting to be expressed. The divine cannot fully experience itself in a depressed state of mind or unhealthy relationship; that is contradictory to its very essence. You are worthy of great love and the divine wants you to have it much more than you are willing to receive it.
Faith is closing that door to the possibility of failure and standing firm in your belief that you will find your way to each other. As you become detached from how and when, the answer will be brought to you. Your focus will powerfully shift in alignment with what you want to accelerate love’s arrival. Love isn’t something to hope for, but to have faith knowing it is your divine right for your full self-expression.