Debi Berndt August 28, 2015 4 Comments Confidence & Self-Esteem, Featured Relationship Advice, Love Moments, Personal Growth, Success & Wealth

How to live in possibility to create your dream life

Why is it so hard to change our reality? If you are like me, you have probably heard dozens or even hundreds of lectures on changing your life. They tell you to think positive, ...

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Debi Berndt July 27, 2015 7 Comments Confidence & Self-Esteem, Dreams, Love Moments, Personal Growth, Success & Wealth

There is nothing wrong with you

For decades I searched for the answer to my life’s problems. I didn’t know my purpose, I was single and I hated my day job. I felt stuck but was always open to explore inside ...

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Debi Berndt July 15, 2015 2 Comments Confidence & Self-Esteem, Featured Relationship Advice, General Love Advice, Love Moments, Personal Growth

Are you an attention addict?

When you meet someone new, do you constantly check your phone to see if he texted you? Do you feel a surge of relief when you get that sweet note, “hey babe” and forget about ...

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Debi Berndt June 5, 2015 1 Comment Confidence & Self-Esteem, Featured Relationship Advice, General Love Advice, Love Moments

How to say “no” without feeling guilty

Have you ever wanted to say “no” but just couldn’t get the words out of your mouth? You say what you think the other person wants to hear, agree to something you would ...

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Debi Berndt May 7, 2015 6 Comments Articles, Confidence & Self-Esteem, Dating & Relationships, Love Moments

Why you reject the “nice” guys (or girls) in dating.

You meet someone and they seem like a possible match, but as the date goes on you start to feel annoyed and uncomfortable with their fondness of you. You give them one or two more ...

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Debi Berndt March 11, 2015 2 Comments Confidence & Self-Esteem, Love Moments, Personal Growth, Success & Wealth

Indulging in the luxury of doubt

Doubt is not alone and is closely followed by its cousins, fear and worry. Doubt brings us down, it clouds our thinking and distracts us from joy. It may sound strange that the ...

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Debi Berndt March 7, 2015 Confidence & Self-Esteem, Love Moments, Personal Growth, Relationships, Special Events

How to go from being the Pleaser to the Prize in Dating

There is a persona that some of us possess that I call the “Pleaser.” On the surface, you may believe being the Pleaser is a good quality. They are easy-going, nice to be ...

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Debi Berndt February 7, 2015 1 Comment Confidence & Self-Esteem, Featured Relationship Advice, General Love Advice, Love Moments

Stop looking backward when searching for love

When you think about finding love, are you still trying to analyze the past? The instinct for past-reflection isn’t your fault. Most self-help modalities will tell you to blame ...

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Debi Berndt November 20, 2014 Confidence & Self-Esteem, General Love Advice, Love Moments, Relationships

[VIDEO] Handling the question from relatives “Why are you single?” during the holidays

You know how it feels. You sit down for a holiday dinner and you already feel awkward without having someone in your life. You look at your cousins or siblings with their spouses ...

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Debi Berndt October 13, 2014 1 Comment Confidence & Self-Esteem, Love Moments, Personal Growth

Rubber Band Effect in Personal Growth

Have you ever noticed that when you start to make a change in your life, it seems like things get worse, not better? You make a commitment to get out there to date and you are ...

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