Biggest Dating Blunder When Looking For Mr. Right
If you want to attract the love of your life, you need to make sure that all of your behaviors are congruent with that desire. Most singles find a man to fill in the void while they wait for Mr. Right to show up. I did this for years, hanging around Mr. Right Now’s convincing myself it was alright…for now. Little did I know that I was sending a strong message to my subconscious that I was satisfied with an uncommitted relationship. I witness this conduct with single people all the time. They say they want a partner but still have sex with guys that do not want any commitment. Your mind is confused as to what you really want and reads more of your actions than your thoughts.
It wasn’t until I finally broke through this pattern myself that I was able to make room for my real love to appear. I just told the guy I was seeing casually that I did not want to see him anymore because I wanted a real, committed relationship. Two weeks later, I met Roberto. Maybe it was coincidence, but maybe the universe was just waiting for me to finally make up my mind of what I really wanted.
Think about what you really want. Do your actions support that desire? If not, think about what you can do to change your life to set the stage for your true love.