Love Attraction System for an Extraordinary Relationship

Love isn't a fairytale - it is your destiny


Note: NOW AVAILABLE On-Demand Version 6- week program. Get all the recordings plus some live group calls with Debi & Rob for a special rate.

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Love is a mystery for most people. Why do we fall for the wrong people and why can't we make love last? Why is dating so hard and it seems that everyone is meeting someone except you?

When you finally meet someone you like, it feels they aren't feeling the same way. Why is it to hard to find that mutual chemistry?

If you are alone and don't want to be, it isn't because something is wrong or that you are doing things the wrong way.  Attraction is not conscious.

Most people settle for the default attraction based on their early life conditioning. It is very rare that they are actually completely fulfilled but they would never tell you that. You look at them and wonder why they settled. Sure, there are rare incidents of "happy accidents" but if you look around they are not common.

This bring us to you and now. There is a part of you that doesn't want to settle, that believes in higher love and you aren't giving up.

How would your life be different if you could access the unconscious part of you that can create an extraordinary relationship? 

Would you like to...

  • Date more quality people so you save time and find your match faster!
  • Understand the difference between infatuation, projection and real love
  • Use your interactions in dating to grow yourself and bring you closer to love rather than feeling it is so far away
  • Have chemistry with someone who matches every aspect of relationship - physical, romantic, social and spiritual
  • Create powerful boundaries and communication skills in dating so you can let people into your heart
  • Be more comfortable with yourself and who you are so you can relax when socializing and feel powerful in dating situations
  • Feel loved by someone who is incredible and your ideal partner!

To find your soul-mate, you must first know your own soul.  -Dr. Rob

Do you wonder if you can be fulfilled completely with a partner?

Does it feel like there is always something missing whether it is physical, romantic or lack of commitment?

Going deeper into your heart to move beyond your shadow into the realm of divine love doesn't have to be so complicated.

We have discovered a way to teach Carl Jung's deep individuation process working with your Animus (Inner Adam) and Love Shadow so that you can easily make the changes in your internal and external worlds to create a new experience in relationships.

In our new program, we will dive DEEP into your mind and heart to cultivate a spark of love that shine out so your soul-mate can FIND YOU!

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Why you haven't found it and how you can change your destiny...

The reason most people don't have the love they seek is that they are trying to find a partner based on out-dated conditioning from their ego-self. Carl Jung gave us a map of the psyche that explains the journey from the ego-conditioned self to transcending to the True Self.

Your Ego-conditioning has created masks that you wear that you are not conscious of that limit your life and self-expression. If you don't become conscious of them, you will get more of the same results . You may even have small experiences of love , but it is fleeting. The relationships don't last or the person leaves you in heartache. You never feel like you are in control of your destiny. External events pull at you emotionally like a roller-coaster and fill you with anxiety.

You may seek spiritual wisdom, but most of what you hear makes you feel good temporarily until the next big setback enters your life. Your ego will make you feel that there is not enough love, money or time and is constantly giving power to everything outside of you.

You can be free of the masks of conditioning that has limited you and become conscious of your TRUE SELF.

There is a reason you are here

Would you like to become more aware of who you are so you can find the love you really want?

There is a reason why you haven't found love yet, but the reason isn't that you don't deserve it or that you did something wrong or that it is just not in your destiny.

The reason is unconscious and if you don't discover what that is you will continue to have the same type of relationship experience.

We want you to find love that fills you body, mind and soul and by going through our transformational process, you can find the love of your life.

Imagine finding a love that lasts a lifetime?

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In love, don't settle for less than EXTRAORDINARY

Group Love Coaching Program
to find an Extraordinary Relationship

Our 6-Week Love Attraction System is designed to help you uncover the way you have been relating in relationships and how to access deeper parts of your psyche to free yourself from the old patterns and create a lasting love relationship. We created this program for single people seeking a lasting, loving relationship.

The program is for life-time learners, fascinated with the psychology of Carl Jung, dedicated to their personal growth,  be guided in a deep, process of exploring the unconscious, shadow, Inner Adam (or Eve) and dreams so you can find true love.

Participation: 100% Virtual Online Training - can be taken from anywhere in the world.

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Do you have questions and want to speak with our  Program Specialist directly to find out more?

You can get a complimentary 15-minute consultation with our Program Specialist!

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Being in Love Modules Include:


Module 1
Your Psyche in Love

This module helps you understand the patterns of your psyche that are unconscious that are dictating your love choices and introduce you to the four faces of love. Get clear on where you are in each area and what you need to shift to attract the love you want.

  • Why is there always something missing in people you meet?
  • Why do you keep attracting the same situation or type of person?
  • See yourself beyond the mask of your persona and go deeper to have a true connection

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Module 2
Understanding Physical Chemistry

This module helps you understand physical attraction and chemistry. Discover the shadow parts in you that influence physical and sexual attraction so you know WHY you are drawn to certain people and how you can become conscious of certain aspects so you can explore a deeper, physical and sexual experience in your ideal relationship.

  • Your age and his age and why it matters
  • Too much sex too soon or not at all
  • His money, your money and success
  • Physical attraction, looks and body types
  • Intimacy, touching and affection

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Module 3
Secrets of Romantic Attraction

This module helps you cultivate that romantic chemistry with someone consciously. Understand the difference between infatuation and true love. Get clear on your emotional life and connection to others.

  • Become more emotionally-aware
  • Open your heart to feel more connected to others so you can have a deeper relationship
  • Overcome obsessions and discover the real divine love that is waiting for you
  • Express yourself emotionally without fear of rejection

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Module 4
Marriage, Commitment and You

This module helps you understand the psychology of social influence on your ideas of marriage, commitment and gender roles in relationships. See how your parents' relationships and others in your culture and society unconsciously influencing your love choices.

  • Why do you keep meeting people who don't want a commitment?
  • Why you get nervous when people come on too strong and want to jump into a relationship?
  • How does your relationship status unconsciously influence your social life in work, family and friends?
  • Shadow of commitment and how it has been dictating your love choices

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Module 5
True Spiritual Love

This module helps you move beyond your personal history and conditioning and connect to a deeper level of spiritual experience in relationship. The highest level of love includes the physical, the romance, the commitment but also the divine form. Explore your spiritual side and how it shows up in relationships so you can integrate the spirit into your experience in love.

  • Grow yourself spiritually to meet your spiritual match
  • Overcome resistance to expressing your spirituality in a relationship
  • Avoid spiritual bypassing and create a true spiritual connection with yourself, your true love and with life.

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Module 6
The Complete Relationship

This module will help you pull all the learning together to move to the next level in your relationship life. Get direction on how to continue exploring each face of love so you can reach higher experiences together with the love of your life.

  • Identify any obstacle that is still in your way so you can be successful at love
  • Master working with all aspects so you can be prepared for the greatest love of your life and make it last
  • Get tools to continue on your journey to love

Bonus #1 - Visualizations

Visualizations and Mindset Exercises each month to master your practice.

These short (under 15 minutes) and effective visualizations and guided meditations will help you focus your mind, reveal unconscious patterns that have been in the way of getting what you want and help you feel more relaxed and peaceful as you work through the four faces of love and create the ideal relationship in your life.

$2,500 Value


BEING IN LOVE - 6-Week Love Attraction System
Program Summary

  • BEING IN LOVE is a 6-Week On-Demand Program to help you find love and express your divine self in all areas of life.
  • Six (6) Training Modules, each module delivered each week for 6 weeks (value $3,000)
  • 6 Replays of Group Coaching Calls with Debi & Dr. Rob (Value $2,000)
  • Transcripts of All the Training Calls ($500 Value)
  • BONUS: Visualizations and Mindset Exercises for Transformation (value $2,500)
  • Over $7,000 Value!
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We want you to be happy and excited to be in the group. If you are not satisfied with the contents of this program within the first 30 days, you can request a full refund. After 30 days of program start, no refunds will be given.

Here's What Our Past Students Say

“I trained as a coach before I took this program. Debi and Dr. Rob take it to a much deeper level.”

Kristen Baker

Career Coach

“I apply the system in every area of my life. I am getting married to the love of my life thanks to this process.”

Stacey Sullivan

Jungian Life Coach

“I received an incredible transformation far more than I expected.”

Lesley Callan

Jungian Life Coach


Debi and Robert Maldonado, Ph.D. ("Dr. Rob")

This program was developed by Dr. Robert Maldonado who has a Ph.D. in counseling psychology, expert in Jungian Psychology and Debi Maldonado. Robert is recognized internationally as a human behavior and relationship expert. He has had a life-long interest in Jungian Psychology, dreams, world mythology and comparative religion. His diverse academic training includes neuropsychology, neurodevelopment, social neuroscience, and multicultural psychology, and his clinical experience includes working with individuals, groups, couples and families.

Robert’s research interests include the exploration of consciousness, personal transformation, the creative process, and eastern philosophies such as Vedanta, Buddhism, and Taoism.

Debi (Berndt) Maldonado was single until she was in her early forties which inspired her to work with other single women helping them find the love of their life. She knows first hand how hard dating can be and falling for the wrong people. Her personal experience and stories help you feel relaxed like you are talking with an old friend and she will inspire you to go for what you really want.

Debi is also the best-selling author of the book, LET LOVE IN: Open Your Heart & Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner (Wiley 2010) and has been featured by NBC, ABC, FOX, Cosmopolitan, YourTango.com, Huffington Post and more.

Until you make the unconscious conscious it will direct your life and you will think of it as fate.

Carl G. Jung


Do I need to have taken another course before I can enter the Mastermind Program?

No, this program can be taken anytime. If you have taken other courses, you will find this new material will deepen your knowledge and self-awareness for best results.

I am single and I want to find love, will this program address finding your true partner?

Yes, the Love Master  program is specifically designed for people who want to work on their personal life. For six weeks you will be immersed in a process that will dramatically change how you see your personal relationships in romance. You become more conscious of who you really are and be able to make conscious decisions when selecting a partner who shares the same values and vision as you.

What if I have done other shadow work and feel I am ready for a more advanced level?

The Love Attraction System  is very unique. Even if you have done shadow work before, you will get a new perspective going through this advanced process in a new way. Other Jungian systems are based on the therapy model and our system is based on the coaching model so our approach is very different.

Do I need to attend any Live Events for this program?

Being in Love Attraction System can be completely done online in the comfort of your home, no travel is required.  We do offer 2-day intensives for Love that you can purchase in addition to the course if you want to go deeper in person. Check our calendar for events

Do I need to be spiritual to join this program?

We prefer you have a desire to explore your own spirituality. You do not need to define it in anyway and you may become more clear on your spiritual beliefs as you go through the process.


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